The first time I remember not feeling good enough, I was seven years old. Born in Trinidad, raised in Miami, I grew up around hardworking people—but I often felt like I didn’t quite fit. That feeling followed me into my career, making it hard to lead with confidence—even when I had the experience and the skills.

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But there was a time I did feel strong.

1993. My first year of high school.

I was awkward, quiet, and dead last in gym class when Coach Wayne Rullan called me out by my last name and told me to meet him after school.

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I found myself standing outside a weight room with a chipped blue door, the smell of sweat and ego pouring out. Behind that door, Coach made one thing clear:

“You’ll show up. You’ll get stronger. No excuses.”

 

And I did.
Stack by stack—one lift, one lesson, one moment of believing I belonged.

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Coach Rullan didn’t just teach me how to lift weights. He taught me how to build confidence.
And years later, when I found myself struggling again as a leader, I returned to what he taught me.

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I turned it into a system—a way to rebuild self-belief accelerate performance!

That’s how the Security Stacking™ Blueprint was born.

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Now, I help leaders do the same—because confidence isn’t something you wait for.

It’s something you build.